First

First love is a total whirlwind because you have nothing to compare it to; the intensity just hits you all at once. By the time you get to your next relationship, the “newness” doesn’t blindside you as much. You’re able to keep your feet on the ground and actually figure out if the two of you are a good match for the long haul.

While that initial “spark” is great, it doesn’t last forever. A real, lasting partnership is built on the deeper stuff—like having the same values, life goals, and personalities that actually click. As we grow, we realize that just liking a few things about someone isn’t always enough. Sometimes you have to move on to find someone who truly connects with every part of who you are.

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